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Tuesday, December 17, 2024

Christmas Reading (Tell His Story)


 People like to talk about Christmas movies... but what do you read at Christmastime?

Something new, or a personal tradition?

For me it's William Barrett's The Left Hand Of God, a story of redemption and risk set in post-WW2 China.

Every year.

What about you?

Sylvia, unfortunately, can't read. Not that it bothers her when there's ice cream to be had.






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Thursday, December 12, 2024

Who Could Have Seen It Coming?


 Who could truly have foreseen 
what lay beyond that stable birth,
the dawning day of Heaven's dream,
the saving of a fallen Earth?
Who could have looked at the child,
so fragile then in Mary's arms,
and seen a Saviour meek and mild
and stalwart in the face of harms
that rose in anger from Abyss
to reclaim what they thought their own,
and could not be resolved to this,
that their fate had now been sown
by that Babe, now fast asleep,
the Hero who would light the deep.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is LONG.

It was a really lengthy trip,
following that shining star,
and friends said they'd lost their grip,
but Magi said, Well, here we are
to see the whole wide world's new king
sleeping in a manger
and unaware of anything 
that could be a danger,
but the Wise Men realized
that Herod was off his nut,
thinking Baby's death be prized,
so they went and cut
and ran home by another route
to avoid a royal dispute.

Music from the Goo Goo Dolls, with Better Days

Had Sylvia been among the Magi, she would have brought ice cream.


Tuesday, December 10, 2024

Christmas Songs (Tell His Story)


 Up on the housetop reindeer pause,
oh, dear God, it's Santa Claus
in an overloaded sleigh with runners bowed,
he's exceeded our roof's maximum load.
Ho, ho, ho, there the rafters go!
Ho, ho, ho, look out below!
Down through each story, quick, quick, quick,
and into the basement goes Good Saint Nick!

And it gets worse.

Jolly Old Jack Nicklaus,
we know you came to play,
and we're sure you will not go
make even one bo-gay!
Masters time is coming soon,
so you badass man,
send the Young Turks to the moon
when you kick them in the can.

More ice cream for Sylvia, hearing these.




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Thursday, December 5, 2024

Stand


 When the night's the darkest black
and you're nearing journey's end,
don't look forward, don't look back,
and for pity's sake don't bend,
for will is all that you have left
to get you through the awful now.
Think not on life's warp and weft,
and do not wonder how
you're going to face a worse tomorrow,
if tomorrow deigns to come
In any case you've got to borrow
strength when you at last have none,
and stand erect before death's door
when you don't know what you're standing for.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is STUFF.

The keyword for this week is STUFF,
another post, another song,
but I have really had enough,
and I don't know how to go on.
The nights are long, no counting sheep 
because the bones sullenly ache
far too much for any sleep,
and I think there must be some mistake 
that was made by angel-scribe
in setting out what is my life;
perhaps the cherub did imbibe
a spirit that cut like a knife
and feeling sick as sick can be
thought to take it out on me.

Sylvia will stand with me.


Tuesday, December 3, 2024

How Do You Approach Advent? (Tell His Story)


 What does Advent mean to you?

It's the run-up to Christmas...and to Good Friday...

...and to the Resurrection, and our deliverance from damnation.

Have to admit, I have trouble wrapping my thoughts around the whole thing. I'd love to separate out the Holy Night, and the manger, and that quiet intimacy under the stars the angels placed.

But I see to the end, and that no longer works, and Advent is left as the beginning of a Mystery, great and terrible and glorious.

How can a Child be born to die,
the only Son of God,
the apple of His golden eye,
for a world so flawed?
How could dear Mary bear the truth,
and not dissolve in tears?
In what form did God offer proof 
that could calm her fears?
And did strong Joseph come to know 
that he would not be there
to help his wife absorb the blow...
did he think it unfair,
or, as he held the newborn Son,
did he say, "Thy will be done"?

Is this how it should be?

What is it for you?

For Sylvia it's ice cream.




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Thursday, November 28, 2024

Soy To The World

 


I'm glad I'm not a turkey 
to grace your festive table,
or be turned into jerky 
to gnaw on when you're able.
Better far nuggets of soy
and benefits that they can bring,
and the proof that boy, oh, boy,
you can get used to anything.
So let us pour the gravy 
(yes, it is soy too);
so's ham (pigs shout, God save me!)
and we'll quaff when we are through 
tankards of the best soy beer;
aren't you glad you spent Thanksgiving here?

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is TRADE.

I've gone ahead and done the trade
of soy meat for the genuine,
and my wife says this has made
me something of a Frankenstein,
proselytizing far and wide
to anyone within my hearing
of a rising lethal tide
in a way that's not endearing,
shouting of the coming day
when the cows and chickens rise
to conquer and to make us pay
for our arrogant surmise
that retribution would not come,
thinking animals were dumb.

Sylvia will be not countenance soy ice cream.




Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Immigrant Song (Tell His Story)


 

Be thankful for the days God gave,
be thankful for your food.
Be thankful for the hope you save,
be thankful for the good 
things that mark your earthly life,
a job, a car, a home.
Be thankful for a lack of strife,
and that you need not roam
across the sea and burning land
escaping dull privation,
and in your thanks please understand 
that we are yet a nation
that always offered something more,
a lamp beside a Golden Door.

Sylvia's thankful for Chihuahua friends, and ice cream.



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Thursday, November 21, 2024

The Reality


 



I try to keep a sense of humour about cancer, but there is a reality.

This life is like a tightrope 
that I dance upon,
a balance of meaning and hope,
and if I slip I'm gone.
The boundaries are hard and close,
oxygen and a chair.
Not the thing I would have chose,
but it's real and I'm there,
trying not to cast my eyes
into the blank abyss,
and truly the only prize
is ensuring I don't miss
the next most shaky step I take,
fall to despair on which I'll break.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is FIGHT, a quality of which I am running out.

I've fought this thing for years and years,
and used to have a battle-shout,
but now I realize my fears,
and time is running out,
and I really have to ask,
was all of this worthwhile?
Or was it just a silly mask,
a bow to macho style?
I really can't see there from here,
and cannot know an answer,
but it seems perfectly clear,
the winner will be cancer,
and I hope that all I've done
will be accepted by God's Son.

Music from The Damned, with Tightrope Walk

The video is from a really terrific film, The Walk, about Phillipe Petit's high wire walk between the towers of the World Trade Center.

Sylvia will walk the wire for ice cream, using her tail for balance.




Tuesday, November 19, 2024

How Will You Face Your Death? (Tell His Story)


 

Do you think about the day
that you'll be heading home?
Do you think about the way
you'll face that great unknown,
the door between this mortal place 
and the life to come?
Will you want to stand and face
that portal as it's swung,
or like me, would you close your eyes,
and wait for Heaven's morning breeze,
familiar yet a great surprise
and it whispers through the rustling trees,
far past life and far past death,
the benison of Holy Breath?

Sylvia will keep her eyes open, thank you very much, to try to quickly score some ice cream.



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Thursday, November 14, 2024

Valhalla Awaits


 Obnoxious chest-thumping, self-delusion, or total immaturity?

Or a dawning comprehension of what's real?

I stand, and standing prove my worth,
and need not bow my head in shame.
Colossus, I bestride the Earth
and demons tremble at my name,
for I have fought through their abyss 
and left their entrails on the walls,
but let me here not be remiss,
for I well know the Voice that calls
my heart and soul into the fight,
with joyousness upwelling,
for I am drawn up to the light
and there will be a tale worth telling
as Valhalla rises near
with banquet tables slicked by beer.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is VOID.

Yesterday I was annoyed,
and threw a tantrum here.
Life itself felt like a void
when I ran out of beer.
Oh, sure, there was fizzy pop
and a box of wine,
but my anguish would not stop,
and I made it mine,
clutching grievance to my soul,
raging to the sky
that the day could not be whole,
and then I did espy
a fresh unopened case of Bud
and the day got really good.

Three minutes flat, but the beer's foaming in delight!

Beer and ice cream, says Sylvia.


Tuesday, November 12, 2024

Golden Rules (Tell His Story)


 Still down with the longest flu I've ever had, but I'll throw this out there...

Be magnanimous in victory.

Be gracious in defeat.

Share ice cream (Sylvia, how did you sneak that in?).

And move on.


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Thursday, November 7, 2024

The Space Between


I've been running really high fevers lately, and Reality is starting to break through the edges of my orderly little life.

I have now spent quite awhile 
'tween this world and the next.
I'm really going out in style,
and wish I could but text
you of the wonders that I see,
flying dogs and long-lost friends,
Apostles and the Trinity,
and a grand pub-crawl that never ends.
There's Jesus on the rifle range...
BOOM! What the heck, He MISSED?
That is really very strange,
and now He doth insist 
that I take His piece and try the thing,
and I break the heart of the ten-ring.

There is so much more, though, angels ascending and descending, swirling noise and colours you can smell and taste, laughter and love and fistfights, a cacophony of epiphany.

And a message to bring back:

Be graceful in defeat, and magnanimous in victory.

The Five Minute Friday Prompt this week is TOWARD.

All I can offer is a haiku.

As ice presses toward victory,
the spring waits in the sky
with a smile.

Sylvia takes it for granted that there's Foster's-flavoured ice cream.


Tuesday, November 5, 2024

Over To You (Tell His Story)


Been running a high fever for a few days, so coherency is an issue.

But I can't leave you without a starter for conversation, so...

What's you favourite Beatles song?


The video is charming.

Sylvia likes it too.




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Thursday, October 31, 2024

God Don't Make Junk


Regardless of what President Biden says, people are not garbage.

Not even him.

I don't hold with what you hold dear;
it, to me, does not ring true.
But may I make this very clear,
I still believe in you.
My conscience tells me something,
yours says something else,
but let difference that we bring
sit on a dusty shelf,
and let us both behold the Christ 
that shines out of our eyes.
Accept what He has sacrificed,
and thus reject the lies
that tell us that Our Side is the best,
and let the devil take the rest.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is UNEXPECTED.

It was quite unexpected,
the things some people said.
I really felt rejected,
and they wished that I was dead
because I could not quite agree
with what to them was true,
and it seemed they could not see
that you are me is you.
Is this what Christ died for?
Is this why He rose again,
that we might close and bolt the door,
and in darkness remain
with just the warmth we generate 
through hearts that are brim-full with hate?

Three minutes.

Sylvia, having once been thrown away, heartily agrees.


Tuesday, October 29, 2024

I Command You To Vote For...(Tell His Story)


 Someone. Just vote for someone, according to your conscience.

Both of the major candidates (and all of the lesser ones) are imperfect, and there's no Abe Lincoln among them (and if you've read Shelby Foote, you know that Honest Abe was pretty badly flawed as well).

Nonetheless.

I would suggest you follow Russell Crowe's advice from this one-minute clip from Master And Commander: The Far Side Of The World 

Besides, why pass up a chance to see Russell Crowe and Paul Bettany?

Sylvia agrees.



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