Past the sorrow of losing my service dog, Ladron, past the rapidly increasing infirmity of cancer (Barb needed to replace a ceiling fan, and I can no longer climb a ladder to help...but I COULD read her the directions), one still needs to cultivate the Attitude of Gratitude.
So, this is for Barb, with love.
She walks like a happy camel,
has the style of Superfly;
hair is cut like skater, Hamill,
soft brown eyes for which to die.
She can raise your spirit higher,
just like falling off a log,
when she sings in the church choir,
sounding like Kermit the Frog.
As caregiver she's a collie
faced with some unruly sheep,
but remaining ever jolly
'fore dawn when she'd prefer to sleep,
and as accountant (more than grace and looks),
she can really cook the ledger books!
Now don't you wish YOU had married a poet?
The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is CHANCE.
Another one for Barb.
If you had another chance,
a second try at What To Do,
would you change things to enhance
the life of years that you'd walk through?
For my part I am truly blessed,
but as a spouse I think I've failed,
lost the paper for the test,
and I'm just glad you haven't bailed.
Every court must have a jester,
and daily, here, I am class clown,
but in despair, regrets do fester,
and cancer's got me feeling down,
but then your smile shines through our pain
to say you'd do it all again.
Five minutes, just barely.
Music from the OC Supertones, with "Superfly".
Sylvia wonders if she can eat ice cream while rolling her eyes.
What a lovely poem about Barb. Thinking of you and your battle today. May God give you strength!
ReplyDeleteLauren, thank you. In marriage and in life I have been truly blessed, and this blessing is my strength.
DeleteBarb sounds like a wonderful woman! I'm sure you have shared both laughter and tears - all the years. May you have a grace-filled day, Andrew.
ReplyDeleteLisa, she is indeed wonderful. I thank the Lord every day that she said Yes...twice! Yes, we were divorced...my fault...and remarried.
DeleteEvery word radiates love! Take care of you.
ReplyDeleteKaren, thank you. I walking Love, both eternal and temporal.
DeleteIt's a beautiful life.
Barb sounds like one very committed, loyal, and loving wife. I am thinking it was not by chance that you found her. God knew exactly what you needed!
ReplyDeleteJoanne, you're so right. We met on a Catholic singles website; she had just joined, and I was about to quit.
DeleteWe survived a nasty divorce...my doing ..and remarried, within the Church.
God's hand is in all of this.
Barb sounds like an absolute gem! God's hand is obviously on your marriage. May you continue to be blessed together.
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Heather, you're exactly right. Barb IS a gem!
DeleteI'm glad you have Barb alongside you on this journey. I love the poem!
ReplyDeleteLesley, Barb is indeed a blessing, every step of the way.
DeleteYou're lucky to have each other. It's been a tough row to hoe but you've stuck with it through everything. I'm so glad you have. I'm sorry about Ladron.
ReplyDeleteMy dear Norma, it has indeed been a hard road, in many ways harder than I could imagine, but I would do it again.
DeleteAnd about Ladron, thank you. One develops a bond with a service dog, and I still see her everywhere.
I'm sure Barb is equally grateful for you. Wishing you both every blessing!
ReplyDeleteCorinne, thank you so much!
DeleteThis life is messy and it is great to have someone on the trail with you, many blessings.
ReplyDeleteMessy is the word for it, Rhonda! But being blessed in the mess, that's worth it!
DeleteSo beautiful Andrew.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much!
DeleteBarb sounds like a wonderful person and wife. You are blessed--and I think she has been too even though this is probably not the journey she (or you) signed up for when you got married. Love your poems, except I'm sure Barb does not sound like Kermit the Frog when she sings, LOL.
ReplyDeleteGrams, she is indeed a treasure, and you're right, it's not the life she anticipated.
DeleteShe doesn't sound like Kermit, really. More like Big Bird. Seriously, she has a great voice.
Contraltos can croak, growl, and sometimes make others tremble. 🙃
DeleteI greatly admire and thank God for both of you.
ReplyDeleteTish, we're so honoured!
DeleteI'm rather late getting around to reading the link-up but glad I did....your sweet prose for Barb made me smile! Would love to hear her poem to you:)
ReplyDeleteJennifer, thank you! I'm not sure what her poem might say... but it would be interesting!
DeleteBarbara here.
DeleteA poet I'm not but here's my tribute.
He swung into this life unexpectedly.
Taking the shy from most my being as I fought all the way.
Pushing precise concepts to a new edge.
Requiring growth and expansion of body, mind, and soul.
When calm seems to be on a horizon, choas is always near.
Although calm someday may come, his wisdom I pray to hear
Love both of these tributes to Barb, who is clearly an absolute gem. Blessings on both of you.
ReplyDeleteKym, she is definitely a gem!
DeleteBlessings back, from both of us.
That's beautiful, Andrew. You are both very blessed, even in the midst of many struggles.
ReplyDeleteKath, I often think of Lou Gehrig'd famous speech, and sincerely consider myself the luckiest man alive.
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