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Thursday, June 18, 2020

Your Dying Spouse 763 - Keep The Laughter Going {Five Minute Friday}

This was going to be a totaly different post, containing the answers we all need forhealing divions, hanling panemics, and finding in masques a fashion-statement (yes, masques)...but it's been a really bad week, and I kinda misplaced my notes.

Bad week, as in, I can barely eat, and have not the breath to even whistle (which is important as I used a whistle...yes, that one...to get Barb's attention so I could sign to her, since speech is gone).

The one thing I have learned through this whole...thing...is that you have to intentionally keep your humour up. It's perishable; let the laughter die, and resurrection can be real hard as the gloom-sharks close in.

You've got to laugh, and you have to keep the joke-tank full. Because otherwise, you look at a world you are leaving, an you want to cry...and those tears, maybe you can't stop.

It's really worth it, and worth is the Five Minute Friday prompt this week.

So, a hypothetical question...if Jesus had, at the Cana weing, turned water into Bud, would that have been His first beericle? (Some researchers, BTW, contend that the daily 'spoilproof' beverage was actually a kin of beer, far cheaper than wine).

And another...does Swiss cheese come from the milk of holy cows?

And if anyone's still with me...

This is just disaster,
this is just a mess,
so with fashion as my master,
I shall put on a dress,
apply a bit of lip-gloss,
scarf by C. Dior,
and giving bouncy hair a toss
head on out the door
to neighbours’ vast amazement,
friends’ horrified surprise;
they’ll hide out in their basements
to protect their eyes
from what they should have never seen,
and it’s not even Halloween.

And so, music from Boy George and Culture Club, with Karma Chameleon....I wonder if our world today needs some of the spirit of the music and the video?




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34 comments:

  1. Oh my word - you are a crazy man. You may not be able to whistle | You may not be able to talk | Yet in a dress and heels I bet you're sassy as you walk.
    xoxoxo You know who I am.

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    1. Susan, this comment is such a gift! Thank you!

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  2. May God return your whistle, my friend!

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    1. Joanne, thank you so much! I do have enough air to blow a few notes on a harmonica, very softly...

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  3. You bless us with each writing! Thank you for your insight AND your humor!

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    1. SimplySoulSearching, thank you so very much...your lovely affirmation brought light to a hard ay.

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  4. YOU keep me going, my friend

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  5. Laughter... keep choosing it. Praying for breath in your lungs to give you a hearty laugh. Thankful you continue to write and enter into this space. Blessings

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    1. Peggy, thank you so much for this...I do intend to keep choosing laughter...today is our anniverary (and Barb's birthday), and the card I made for her is definitely intended to walk the funny side.

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  6. oh... what can I say Andrew. You had me shaking my head. :) Stay fun.

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    1. Annette, thank you...I do intend to stay fun!

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  7. I'm glad you can still laugh! That makes a big difference!

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    1. Lesley, laughter truly doth make the heart merry!

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  8. Bad dad jokes rock :) was in love with boy George in the 80's life is never what you expect. Keep laughing FMF #18

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    1. Loretta, bad jokes do indeed rock...and this is actually the very forst music video I ever saw. Always loved it.

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  9. I learn so much from you Andrew.

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    1. Duane, giving a smile...that was the whole intent. I'm so glad it worked!

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  11. Laughter is such a gift! We all need to laugh more.

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    1. Tara, you're so right...I figure if we could increase the laughter in this world by 5%, we'd cut the troubles in half.

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  12. Proverbs 17:22 speaks truth when it says a joyful heart is good medicine. Laughter really is the best medicine of all, and it makes my heart happy to know you are still laughing despite it all. Praying the Lord would restore your whistle and your voice.

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    1. Grams, thank you so much for your prayers, and you're so right...laughter is really vital.

      With restoring laughter and voice, I think Go might be weighing some things, because I loved to whistle Broadway show tunes - off key - and sing "I Feel Pretty" when feeding the dogs. Once I gave an impromptu performance in the produce aisle at Walmart, to Barb's horror.

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  13. Humor helps. My oldest son is good at making me laugh. I love that, Wit is a gift. Thanks for the smile. Appreciate you, Andrew.

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    1. My dear Norma, I don;'t think I'd have mae it this far without a somewhat immoderate sense of humour. Appreciate you, too!

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  14. Yep, we're still with you friend!

    And I'm praying for you even as I tap away this Sunday morn.

    May it be a day laced with peace for you and Barb ...

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    1. Linda, thank you so much for your prayers...and please forgive that I have missed commenting on a couple of posts. It's been rough.

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  15. I hate to hear that you're doing so horribly, Andrew. But so glad to know you're still finding the funny in life--even if it's of the corny variety! Lol! I love corny jokes, by the way! Are you sure your not a "dad"? ;-) Praying for you!

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    1. Beth, honestly, there's no countering the 'horrible' without humour. Determination and gumption simply no longer do the job that a simple laugh, or even a smile, does.

      Well, the dogs do seem to call me 'dad'...so I guess, well, maybe...

      Thank you so much for your prayers!

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  16. Awww, Andrew. I'm so sorry you're doing so poorly. Your humor makes me laugh and groan. I guess that's a good thing? ;) I always appreciate your perspective, my friend.

    I'm praying for you and Barb.

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    1. Jeanne, in humour, I think laughter and groans are doppelgangers!

      We thank you so much for your prayers.

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  17. That's good advice, keep your sense of humor my friend.

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    1. Suzette, thank you! Keeping a sense of humour is nothing but intentional, and I do work at it.

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