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Thursday, June 5, 2025

While God Isn't Looking


 You have to make the choice each day
of how you're gonna live,
of whether you will kneel and pray,
and in your prayers forgive
the people who have done you wrong
and made your life a mess,
but as the process goes along,
you may as well confess 
the wrongs that you have perpetrated
through negligence and spite,
self-indulgence that you've orchestrated,
plotting in the night,
the pot of rancid stew a-cooking
when you thought God wasn't looking.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is HONOUR.

We say we want to honour God
through all our days and years,
to live so humble, quiet, awed
and ready for surrender's tears,
but then we get a wild hard hair 
where it ain't s'posed to be,
and we find we do not care
for bland humility.
We really want to live out loud,
to make our being large,
to stand so brassy, tall and proud
as if we are in charge,
and God just smiles and gives us space 
to trip and fall into His grace.

Sylvia doesn't care for stew.



Tuesday, June 3, 2025

All Dogs Go To Heaven (Tell His Story)


 Say hi to Mr. Precious Peanut Buster, ten pounds of cheerful dominance. He's supervising Strawberry.

He came to us yesterday; Latte, Cocoa's brother, passed away last week and Cocoa needed someone his own size.

Everyone loves Precious, and they keep an eye on him so he doesn't try to escape the property.

And so the world goes 'round the sun,
and thus mem'ries are made,
gladness, sorrow, tears and fun,
and graves lie in the shade,
but I know that the grave's a lie,
for nothing good is ever lost.
God has said we will not die,
and paid the fearful cost
that I think truly extends
to the dogs that share our days,
for they are much more than friends,
and I trust God's good ways
not to break my fragile heart,
but have in Heaven a doggy part.

Sylvia has friends in Paradise, which does not mean she'll be sharing ice cream with them.





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Thursday, May 29, 2025

All In The Name


 Barb supplied this lovely picture.

One of the cool things about cancer is positivity. I like cheerful things, and I am most irritatingly upbeat.

So I was watching Return Of The Jedi the other day, and it occurred to me what a bummer the Death Star's name is. I mean, really? Who could be happy working there?

I'll bet those dudes in their goofy caps (Trick or treat!) and lame helmets that look like they're covering up a bad case of the mumps have lines that snake through several corridors to the pshrink's office. Not to mention the Darth Vader theme being on Muzak's auto-repeat.

So, Evil Empire, I have some alternate names for the Death Star...

The Pretty Pony Happy Star

The Hello Kitty Magic Star

The Strawberry Shortcake Birthday Star

The Pikachu Poké Star

And, since the Empire employs chicks, the Cyndi Lauper Party Star, decked out like a mirror ball, with an Imperial Mall at its heart, because girls just wanna have fun.

I mean, guys, you can still blow stuff up with a cool name and mirrors (or maybe paint it pink!).

But maybe you'll be smiling so much you won't want to.

Which is kinda the whole point.

I get so tired of posturing,
nicknames to call fear and dread,
and attitude that's fostering
a woodenness of heart and head,
but maybe it's a simple thing
to change the angry mind.
Just step back and choose to bring
a name both bright and kind
to evoke a cheerful smile 
and happy skipping steps
instead of drear and weltschmerz style
and daily sodden schlepps
to fetch water from poisoned stream...
why do this when your dance can gleam?

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is ANYMORE.

I used to think that acting tough
showed the world I knew the score,
 but now I've really had enough 
and I don't do that anymore,
'cause life is really way too short
to try to act your place and age,
and from now on I will not court
dignity, and turn the page
to where the Pooh just may live,
and maybe little Pikachu;
these are the brightly things that give 
meaning to my point of view
that I see causes sharp pained winces
when I let out my Disney Princess.

And now for some appropriate music...


Sylvia will Jump for ice cream.



Tuesday, May 27, 2025

The Joys Of Friendship (Tell His Story)


 Damn it all, I'm bleeding bad
from, please pardon me, both ends,
and this all might make me sad
were it not for bonza friends
who joke about blood in the dunny
and look to make some photo bombs
(that would be, yeah, kinda funny)
about my crimson-scarlet yawns.
Friends take away the tragedy
and roughly wipe tear from wet eye,
to help me face reality
that I am really gonna die,
but at least the laughing host
won't be upset to see my ghost.

Sylvia thinks this is not in good taste. But she's smiling all the same.





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Thursday, May 22, 2025

The Normalization Of Deviance


When the space shuttle Challenger blew up in January of 1986, it was found that NASA had become acceptant of bad situations, specifically erosion of the o-rings that joined sections of the solid rocket boosters. Erosion was exacerbated by cold, since the o-rings were rubber, but NASA figured that some excursions to the edge of danger were acceptable against The Big Picture, keeping the flight schedule. It was called The Normalization Of Deviance.

They were proven wrong, and the bitter joke became 'NASA means Need Another Seven Astronauts'.

Now we as a country are there. How on earth did we let this happen?

 We're in mortal danger,
this nation once so great.
We're tolerant of anger,
and normalized the hate
of anyone who's different,
the Muslim and the Jew,
the Catholic and Protestant,
and we hate me and you,
for in our blind acceptance 
of what should be called sin,
we pay the devil deference
and bowing, let him in
to a place whose lease we can't afford
that should be a dwelling for the Lord.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is PERSEVERE.

The world will push you to the brink
with click-bait redolent of hate
until within your heart you think
that it's really far too late
to bring back basic decency,
a world in which the social frame
honours all with right to be free,
and dignity's more than a game.
You cannot push your leaders toward
a better thought, nor academic halls,
but you can lay bright virtue's sword
against the rabble at the walls
to cut the heathen ranks right through
and bleeding, come to what is True.

The Beatles would say that all you need is love, but Sylvia would maintain that all you need is vanilla ice cream. I'm with her on this.





Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Judge Not (Tell His Story)


 When you think to judge another person,
do not always trust your gut
lest your 'feeling' be their cursing 
whilst your head was firmly up your butt.
Be wary of the things you say
and the postures that you take,
for at the ending of the day
the decision just ain't yours to make,
and others may use what you've spoken 
and blindly act accordingly,
and something good may well be broken,
and you'll have responsibility
when before God's throne you kneel
as He stomps your ego with His heel.

Sylvia says that in the presence of ice cream, all is forgiven.




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Thursday, May 15, 2025

Talked To God. He Answered.


 I talk to God most every day,
and I do know He's there
by the blunt and pithy way
He hears my not-a-prayer,
'cause God and me, we just talk
like homies, man-to-man,
and sometimes He likes to shock
when I don't understand 
why it has to hurt so much
when He can do some healing
with a casual simple touch,
but His answer is revealing:
"If I give you this victory,
you're gonna lose your ministry."

Don't want that, and He knows it.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is EXTRA.

Extra work and extra duties
to support my darling wife
are part of manifold beauties 
that describe my married life,
and have from that bright wedding day
that God set to inspire
in quite a mischievous way
when the bouquet caught fire
and the champagne had gone bad
(just how, I've no idea),
but on our wedding night we had
a case of diarrhea,
but through it love and laughter came
as the **** went down the drain.

What, TMI?

Syl says that at least there's ice cream. I've developed a liking for Great Value crispy ice cream bars from Walmart.

And speaking of food, drop in at Pam and Tony's place for a behind-the-scenes look at the food truck life, and a killer queso recipe.

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