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Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Spelling Counts (Tell His Story)


Hope you had a chance to watch the US Open this weekend, and the courageous come-from-behind win of J.J. Spaun.

Ah, golf...my old beguiler...

 Gotta hand it to old Scottish shepherds;
crook and stone, they played their shots
and then found, that just like leopards,
they could no longer change their spots
for they had become addicted 
the cruel mistress of a game,
but in their love they weren't conflicted
and life would never be the same
and down the years golf widows wept;
on weekend dawns their men departed
and no promises were kept
for the honey-do's they left unstarted,
but ladies, know tail wags the dog,
and, spelled backwards, golf is flog.

Sylvia says, No Golf! McDonald's ice cream instead.


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Thursday, June 12, 2025

Air India 171


First, our friends Pam and Tony have just rolled out Shake N' Bake, their summer dessert and ice cream truck...the cheesecake and pineapple upsidedown cake are delicious ( and are what we've had so far). Please drop by their blog!

And now to Ahmedabad, with prayers and love.

On their way to London
and then a turn of fate
from what was to would become
a walk through Heaven’s Gate.
In that last stark blinding fear
I pray they felt embrace
of the One who holds them dear
and beheld His face,
and of those left here to toil
in memory and weeping,
please let them feel anointing oil
and hear, “They are but sleeping,
and will awake in My strong arms
to wait for you, now safe from harms."

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is PANIC.

There was one survivour there
who walked of of the flame
of hell falling through the air 
and Ramesh is his name.
He spoke of anguished seatmates,
he told of frightened screams
of those who clearly saw their fates,
but never in his dreams
did he think he would emerge
from this crucible.
He wonders that he did deserve 
this signal miracle
that nonetheless did bear a cost,
the well-loved brother that he lost.


Sylvia mourns.



Tuesday, June 10, 2025

The Worst Of Sins (Tell His Story)


I promised to be honest, and sometimes it's not fun.

This is one of those times.

A couple of days ago I acted a right bastard towards Barb. I can't even remember why (except that it was a pride thing), and would be tempted to blame it on extreme pain, fear, and the generally awful feeling of where the cancer journey is today, but that would be dishonest.

I had the choice to say, or not say, something cruel, and the choice to persist.

Barb has forgiven me, but I have to forgive myself... otherwise I'm rejecting her forgiveness.

And that's wrong, and that's prideful. Which is where the whole thing started.

But the hardest thing is yet to come...joining the dance again, without either putting lipstick on the pig of my actions, or staring at the ground in a kind of self-indulgent guilt that is really a passive-aggressive demand for pity (oh, poor me, the pain made me do it!).

It's time to be a man, admit my misdeeds, and do my best to contribute to the common good.

And the common happiness.

 Sometimes it's all going well
and you are on a roll,
and then it just goes all to hell 
and failure takes its toll.
Sometimes you live in God's bright graces
with kindness as your guide,
and then a harsh cold word erases
all with foolish pride,
and you're left with a ruined heart,
distanced from the Lord
and those who had taken your part
now seem to turn, your sins abhorred,
but this too is your prideful state,
indulgence in squalid self-hate.

Sylvia doesn't have a problem with self-loathing, even when she chews up a book.




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Thursday, June 5, 2025

While God Isn't Looking


 You have to make the choice each day
of how you're gonna live,
of whether you will kneel and pray,
and in your prayers forgive
the people who have done you wrong
and made your life a mess,
but as the process goes along,
you may as well confess 
the wrongs that you have perpetrated
through negligence and spite,
self-indulgence that you've orchestrated,
plotting in the night,
the pot of rancid stew a-cooking
when you thought God wasn't looking.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is HONOUR.

We say we want to honour God
through all our days and years,
to live so humble, quiet, awed
and ready for surrender's tears,
but then we get a wild hard hair 
where it ain't s'posed to be,
and we find we do not care
for bland humility.
We really want to live out loud,
to make our being large,
to stand so brassy, tall and proud
as if we are in charge,
and God just smiles and gives us space 
to trip and fall into His grace.

Sylvia doesn't care for stew.



Tuesday, June 3, 2025

All Dogs Go To Heaven (Tell His Story)


 Say hi to Mr. Precious Peanut Buster, ten pounds of cheerful dominance. He's supervising Strawberry.

He came to us yesterday; Latte, Cocoa's brother, passed away last week and Cocoa needed someone his own size.

Everyone loves Precious, and they keep an eye on him so he doesn't try to escape the property.

And so the world goes 'round the sun,
and thus mem'ries are made,
gladness, sorrow, tears and fun,
and graves lie in the shade,
but I know that the grave's a lie,
for nothing good is ever lost.
God has said we will not die,
and paid the fearful cost
that I think truly extends
to the dogs that share our days,
for they are much more than friends,
and I trust God's good ways
not to break my fragile heart,
but have in Heaven a doggy part.

Sylvia has friends in Paradise, which does not mean she'll be sharing ice cream with them.





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