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Thursday, November 6, 2025

Five Minute Friday: COFFEE


 The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is COFFEE.

What's your favourite kind? Jamaican Blue Mountain for me, thanks.

Here are some nice coffee-quotes...enjoy!

“In Seattle, you haven’t had enough coffee until you can thread a sewing machine while it’s running.” - Jeff Bezos

"A mathematician is a device for turning coffee into theorems.” -Albert Einstein

"I'd rather take coffee than compliments just now." - Louisa May Alcott 

"It is inhumane, in my opinion, to force people who have a genuine medical need for coffee to wait in line behind people who apparently view it as some kind of recreational activity." - Dave Barry

"I don't really like coffee, she said, but I don't really like it when my head hits my desk when I fall asleep either." - Brian Andreas 

Your turn!

Yes, Sylvia likes coffee -flavoured ice cream.


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Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Idiot Actors (Tell His Story)


Are you really tired of actors talking politics?

I wonder why the actors think
that we care about their views.
Those not red are surely pink,
and most really hate the Jews.
Some rail on 'bout climate change;
"Follow science!" is their cry,
but they aren't going to rearrange 
the private jets on which they fly.
Maybe they should really stick
to the job for which they're paid,
but do they do the poli-schtick
because deep down they are afraid 
that when youth's good looks are spent 
they'll find themselves irrelevant?

This linkup will close on November 6, at 7pm MST. I'm going to be standing in for Kate Motaung at Five Minute Friday through the end of the year, and so FMF and Tell His Story will co-locate. The posts will go live
 each Thursday at 8pm MST, and will be announced on Facebook (Andrew Budek) and X (@BudekSchmeisser)

In January Tell His Story will return to the usual Tuesday morning schedule.

I hope you'll join me; I have some nice writing prompts planned.

Sylvia prefers Shrek.



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Thursday, October 30, 2025

Five Minute Fridaying, Starting Next Week...

 


It's strange how time just flies on by,
and how each week we greet
folks we'll never see by eye,
never touch, nor ever meet,
but these people are quite real
with hopes and dreams and cares,
and I know them enough to feel 
that they don't put on airs.
Some will score the modern world,
to say the Internet doth isolate,
but I don't think I'll be deterred,
and surely will not hesitate 
to love these faceless distant friends
with honesty, and no pretence.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is RECOGNIZE.

I don't recognize the man I see
when I behold the looking-glass,
because, in truth, I used to be 
a cad, a boor, an...uh, donkey.
But now there is a look of peace 
peering through the biker beard,
something of the heart's release,
and that's really, really weird,
for cancer's tearing me apart,
I puke, and hit the floor on pain,
but I see a happy heart
in the mirror, to remain
through the days through which I roam
until the day God calls me home.

To repeat the announcement from last week...

As you know, Kate won't be hosting FMF through November and December.

I offered to stand in, and she accepted. I can't begin to describe how honoured I am.

You won't be getting her emails announcing posts, but I will let you know on X (@BudekSchmeisser) and Facebook (Andrew Budek).

I don't spam these platforms. Just the blog, my Substack site, and an occasional uplifting quote.

The posts will go live on Thursday nights at 8pm Mountain Time.

I'll do things a little differently, since I'm not nearly the writer Kate is. I already have a list of words, and I'll give myself five minutes to find a good quote (or several) that fits the prompt. I think the prompts will be fun.

And none of my poetry, because this is about being a placeholder for Kate. 

The dates will be:

November 7
November 14
November 21
November 28
December 5
December 12
December 19
December 26
January 2

I really hope you'll join me.

So does Sylvia. She's the brains behind all this.



 

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

For The Lonely, And A Coming Schedule Change (Tell His Story)


 This is a sonnet for the lonely and desperate. It is not my life.

Please don't walk away from me,
I didn't mean to get so ill
and I really try to be 
the person that I once was, still,
but I can hardly walk there days,
my speech and thoughts are slow.
It takes me time to coin a phrase,
but please, my friend, don't go!
Please remember who I was
in a broader, brighter place.
Please stay here with me because
I really need to see you face
to hear your laugh, enjoy your smile,
to let me know I'm still worthwhile.

Sylvia says this applies to old and sick dogs and cats, as well.

There will be a temporary change of schedule for Tell His Story, posting on Thursdays at 8 pm Mountain Time through November (starting November 7) and December, and January 2.

Kate Motaung, the host for Five Minute Friday, will be off for that time, and I will be stepping in with prompts.

I invite you to do a five minute write, or to link a favourite post.

I hope you'll be with me!



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Thursday, October 23, 2025

Stepping Into A Giant's Shoes


Dear Five Minute Friday People,

As you know, Kate won't be hosting FMF through November and December.

I offered to stand in, and she accepted. I can't begin to describe how honoured I am.

You won't be getting her emails announcing posts, but I will let you know on X (@BudekSchmeisser) and Facebook (Andrew Budek).

I don't spam these platforms. Just the blog, my Substack site, and an occasional uplifting quote.

The posts will go live on Thursday nights at 8pm Mountain Time.

I'll do things a little differently, since I'm not nearly the writer Kate is. I already have a list of words, and I'll give myself five minutes to find a good quote that fits the prompt.

And none of my poetry!

The dates will be:

November 7
November 14
November 21
November 28
December 5
December 12
December 19
December 26
January 2

I really hope you'll join me.

So does Sylvia. She's the brains behind all this.



 

Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Farm Report (Tell His Story)


Walk away, turn off the news
and let this act be your retort.
Sing your home, and not the blues 
as this is your Farm Report. 
When comes sun, and when comes hail?
The marching throng will summon hell
that they in anger hope world's fail,
but I think that time will tell,
and that the corn will grow in rows,
and the golden wheat will wave,
and as our boredom with hate grows
we'll find the Farm Report will save 
our great nation, keep it whole,
and thus save our collective soul.

Sylvia prefers cows to corn and wheat, as cows bring milk, and milk brings ice cream. 



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Thursday, October 16, 2025

If Only


 The words If Only are at odds
with any kind of Divine Grace,
'cause fundamentally they throw God's
blessings for you in His Face.
If only means you aren't content 
with the love He has for you,
and they demonstrate intent
to leave His arms for something new,
so purge these words from heart and tongue,
let them not arise in thought,
and doing so, you'll stand among
those whose loyalty is not bought 
by the longing for Earth's bling,
the madding grasp for the brass ring.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is REAL.

When you wish upon a star
to ask for blessings that you feel 
must be made to how things are...
well, dude, that isn't real.
If wishes might be horses, well,
then beggars would ride,
but the wish is empty shell 
that holds nothing inside,
and distracts you from the truth
that God's will is not our own,
and we have to take as proof 
the Blood that He had sown
from His Son at Calvary,
the ransom paid for you and me.

Sylvia reaches for ice cream, and in this she is content.



Tuesday, October 14, 2025

A Prayer For The Babies (Tell His Story)


There is a child that's just been born,
arrived the other day.
He deserves a world untorn,
and to this end I pray
that bladed words might be made new
to comment on the love and grace
which may one day be coming true
to heal this sad and lonely place,
and so I will begin it here,
and let compassion fly
gently to where air is clear,
and maybe, by and by,
others might come to understand,
and walk in beauty, hand in hand.p

Sylvia loves children, and peace.




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Thursday, October 9, 2025

Torn Between Earth And Heaven

 

I died last night.

I was led Home by Ofhi Tobi, the white dog who is the guide of Barb's people, the Chickasaw.

Heaven is a lot like where I am now. A double wide on a desert mesa. There were dogs, and a horse named Cinnamon, and neighbours shooting off guns for the sheer joy of it. Someone brought a Carl Gustav.

There were angels. I asked one, a black man with a shaved head, "What the hell is going on?"

He replied, "That's the best question anyone's ever asked, on coming here."

I said that it all seemed so real, unlike any dream.

"That's because it is real."

My body kept trying to come back to this life, and I was torn between here and Eternity.

I don't know how many times I came back to this place, and then bounced back to Heaven.

Finally all became still, and I was breathing Earthly air. Very shaky.

Since then I can't stop crying. I don't know why. It's neither sorrow nor joy, so far as I can tell.

I can't write a sonnet right now. This had been overwhelming.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is EXPLAIN.

I can't explain the tears, and I don't want to try.

I do want to explain to you that this is, not WAS, a reality. A place beyond dreams, more real than Earthly life itself.

But how do I describe the sounds and smells and touch that are never found in dreams, and are heightened far beyond what one experiences in this world?

Words fail, here.

I just want you to know that hope is affirmed, and I don't know how.

Sylvia is glad I'm back.



Tuesday, October 7, 2025

How Not To Treat A Spouse (Tell His Story)


 In Vietnamese culture, one is enjoined to treat one's spouse as an honoured guest.

Well, today I didn't do that.

Precious ChiWeenie, all eight pounds of him pictured above, got off the property, and I was horrified. I can't chase a runaway dog; I can barely walk.

I called Barb at work and was really dreadfully rude. I was angry with myself for inadequately supervising the little guy, and took it out on her.

That's inexcusable.

She came home to help look, and as she pulled up to the gate, guess who was waiting for her? Yes, Precious.

The bad feelings have, for Barb, passed. She wasn't pleased with my behaviour, but understood it.

I will eventually forgive myself, but I will be watchful of my thoughts and words, more so, for now on.

And Precious will be walking on a leash for awhile.

Sylvia says, c'mon, Dad! He knows where he lives, and he proved it.

And I bit you once, when the ice cream didn't come fast enough. I got over it.



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Thursday, October 2, 2025

The Subtle Danger Of Fiction


I was never that much of a fan of fiction (though I do have two novels published on Kindle, with the kind help of Carol Ashby), but recently a friend prevailed upon me to give Tom Clancy a try.

And he's good. The stories are well-thought-out, interweaving plot lines leading to a climax that is satisfying, tying up each loose end, except for some that are meant for the next book in its sequence.

But...life isn't like that, at least from the perspective of we who live ours.

Things start and stop, and leave a wake that is a question-mark on our time here.

Ordinarily, that's fine, and the purpose of reading fiction, beyond entertainment, is to try to see a kind of order, God's purpose writ small by a human author, if you will.

But sometimes we're past that, and we're dealing with the tag-ends of a life that no longer seems to be capable of following a plan, and we may therefore feel that something's gone very wrong, something that can't be fixed.

The stories become more real than our own, and better than our own.

And we feel like driftwood on the stormy wave.

And here, though it's hard, we have to fall back on God's ways not being our ways, His thoughts not being our thoughts.

Antoine de St. Exupéry said it well in Polite de Guerre (published in English as Flight to Arras):

We are individual stones in a mighty edifice, whose completed design we shall need more time and more peace to see in its proper perspective.

Our stories seem to have no arc,
no plot-line with its steady flow.
We wander sometimes the dark
through a land we do not know,
ushered onward by a fate 
sightless as Mr. Magoo,
pushing hard on every gate
which we must pull, that we go through.
But we may, in the dark of night,
when pain and fear cut to the bone,
catch the bright and fleeting sight
of Purpose beyond our own
that in time we will stand among
the heirs to Our Lord's Kingdom Come.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is THRILL.

Tom Clancy's books can be a thrill
(they're techno-thrillers, after all!),
a ride down a Death Mountain hill
into what seems a solid wall
of danger and of dreadful fate,
with pain and loss along the way,
and just before it seems too late
the hero comes to save the day,
which, when it is given thought,
is like our Christianity.
Our putrid sins, they really ought
to damn us for eternity,
but in our place the Saviour stands,
His death to place us in God's hands.

Sylvia sometimes thinks she is fortunate that she can't read.




Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Mr. Toad Tells His Story


 We had a terrific thunderstorm over Saturday night, and then, before dawn, a visitor.

Can you tell me, Mr. Toad,
just where do your kind reside
when the waters have not flowed;
just where do you hide?
To the river it's a mile,
up the mesa it's four hundred feet,
so tell me, and we'll share a smile...
just how do we meet?
The Toad, he seems to meet my eyes,
but Ribbit's all he says.
Something 'bout him does look wise,
and as I hold his gaze
I find that there is wonder here
as clouds pass and the stars appear.

Sylvia tried to eat a toad. The toad was offended, and hopped away hissing, and Sylvia figured she'd stick to ice cream.





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Thursday, September 25, 2025

Peace Train


 With the world seeming to go nuts, it feels kinda funny to write about my dealing with cancer. A bit like navel-gazing.

There's nothing constructive I can really do, save trying to write something positive, and hope that these word-ripples survive their trip across the water, and wash some distant shore.

'Agree to disagree' was fine,
at least that's how it seemed to me,
but now it's like we crossed a line,
and you're evil if you don't agree 
with the right or with the left
to love or madly loathe this nation,
but can't we see we're warp and weft,
the tapestry of God's Creation?
I think if we would just step back
and look at our foes with new eyes
we might regain something we lack,
and find out, that, to our surprise,
those we'd throw beneath the bus
are an awful lot like us.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is SPARK.

Lord, please let me be a spark
to light a golden flame
to banish demons of the dark,
to light Your Holy Name.
Lord, let me be a man of peace
'till my life's at an end.
Let the pride in my heart cease,
to see a potential friend
in all those whose paths might cross
mine as I walk my days,
for missing this would be a loss,
and so please make my ways
straight unto the barren hill
where sacrifice is measured still.

Maybe this is appropriate music to add, Cat Stevens' Peace Train.


Sylvia refuses to hate, though she still chases lizards.



Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Kintsugi (Tell His Story)


 Have you heard of kintsugi?

It's the art of repairing cracked pottery and ceramics with powdered gold or silver, mixed with lacquer.


Each repair is unique. The damage becomes part of the beauty.

It does take time and care.

Sylvia understands. We found her dying in a summer field. It took awhile for her to thrive.




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Thursday, September 18, 2025

Sitting


Barb took this picture on leaving for work the other day.

I'm writing this at the end of a very long night of severely worse metastatic pain in my right femur. Sleep wasn't possible, and I was too tired to read or scroll Facebook (which I don't do), or even think.

But I had to be present for the pain, and let it go on as it would (I don't have painkillers).

I wish there were some epiphany connected with this, some great knowing suddenly revealed...but it was just pain, and I had to be here.

But maybe that IS the epiphany, that it's ok to just sit with a hard experience, not trying to distract, or make it go away.

Reminds me of a song I love, Cat Stevens' Sitting.


The night crawls by on turtle feet,
and there's nothing in my brain
except to know that I must meet
and sit here with the pain
that burns within my thinning leg
like a freshly broken bone,
but I know better than to beg
for relief; I'm not alone.
The Lord is with me, and His face 
is turned to me in full.
The stars above reflect His grace,
and I can feel the pull,
upward, through the darkling sky,
and I am not afraid to die.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is AFFECTION.

I have affection for my life,
dogs and uke and aeroplanes, too,
and Jesus Christ and my dear wife,
so I guess I will stay true 
to the principle of living
every day as best I can,
taking less than I am giving;
that's what it means to be a man
in these days of grinding pain,
my own and that of this great nation,
and so for now I will refrain
from worry 'bout either situation 
letting peace and love take wing 
in every single song I sing.

Sylvia's not afraid either, 'cause she knows there's ice cream in Heaven.



Tuesday, September 16, 2025

World Full Of Hope (Tell His Story)


 We've come to a dreadful place
where hate rules above all,
but there is still some ample grace;
the tides still rise and fall,
and there is the autumn rain,
and the snows to come
that will ease the birthing pain
of a world that's remade young.
The sparrows will then make their nest 
when next spring arrives,
and parent-birds will do their best
that every hatchling thrives,
so turn away from mournful news
and glory in God's gift of views.

Sylvia likes to bark at sparrows.



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Thursday, September 11, 2025

Called To Forgive


 I have seen the news this week,
and I have vengeance in my heart.
I would dearly love to wreak
havoc on those who tore apart 
the fabric of society 
with their vile and loathsome acts,
the parade of putrid cruelty,
but, my friend, these are the facts,
that those who perpetrated death
can be God's children, just like me.
They live from breath to breath to breath,
and though they are to blind to see
the evil that they choose to live,
Christ still calls me to forgive.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is PICK.

Forgiveness ain't what I would pick
for the monsters on our streets,
and it makes me kind of sick
that one only in forgiveness meets
the Christ that offers His salvation 
to even the worst of these.
I mean, really, my situation 
ain't that bad, so maybe please
let me be both judge and jury,
let revenge be mine, not Thine,
let me drop the jerks and bury
them somewhere in the sands of time.
Let me, Lord send them to hell...
"Fine, but you'll go there as well."

Sylvia says forgiveness is best served with ice cream.