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Thursday, August 10, 2023

Martha On The Mary-Go-Round




As I write this, Barb is in the ER. She had really bad upper abdominal pain today, and as yet there are no answers. Morphine did take pain away.

She expects me to carry on, so here goes.

I kinda like Martha. She's got spirit, and isn't shy about saying what comes into her head. Barb thinks she's a lot like Simon Peter, and I think she's onto something there.

But still, you have to wonder how she felt when Jesus pushed back against her request that He tell Mary to for Pete's sake (!) give her a hand when He dropped by, and Martha wanted to make Him welcome according to custom.

To Martha, the request was reasonable. Men did the discipleship thing, women did the serving thing.

Jesus put that on its head. Mary sat at His feet, exactly as a man would.

Was Martha invited to join her? We don't know.

How did Martha take it? We don't know that either.

But I think we can imagine.

 It is the kind of story
that has the scope to break your heart.
'Twas Mary got the glory,
and Martha got the lesser part,
but she felt called to give her best
in an act of service,
and though she failed some kind of test,
she did not deserve this
sentence carried through the years,
a place further from the throne of grace.
I wonder if the bitter tears
rolled unseen upon her face
when she undertook to understand
the weight of Christ's soft reprimand.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is LEAVE.

Martha got reprimanded, yeah.

But she still had attitude.

She met Him on the road ahead,
and said, 'The news really ain't great;
Lazarus is buried, dead,
and why were You so late?
Three days past, his soul is gone
(and what, Lord, were you thinking?).
He is lost to us this dawn,
fed to worms and stinking.'
And then, perhaps, she turned to leave,
but Jesus Christ reached out His hand, and ask, 'Dear heart, do you believe,
and in believing, understand
that Lazarus will soon draw breath,
for I, the Lamb, have conquered death?'

Four minutes thirty and change.

Yesterday, August 9, was our anniversary, so here's music from Firefall, with You Are The Woman

Sylvia thinks ice cream is the best medicine.


23 comments:

  1. Wow, I'm so sorry to hear about Barb. Praying for wisdom for the doctors attending her and for healing and a speedy recovery for Barb. Do you have anyone to help you out? Praying for peace and comfort for both of you, and that the Lord would strengthen you to enable you to carry on, and to send you help.

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    1. Grams, thank you so much. There are people on whom I can call, both in the church community and in the local area.

      Still waiting for news.

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  2. P.S. Belated Happy Anniversary, although it doesn't sound like it was a happy day.😢

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    1. Grams, we are alive and remain, and that in itself is a manifold blessing.

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  3. I'm so sorry to hear about Barb. Praying that the doctors are able to discover what's wrong quickly, and for her healing. Praying for you too as you wait and try to manage things yourself.
    I do feel sorry for Martha sometimes. I'm glad we have the account of her conversation with Jesus after Lazarus's death and that she's not just remembered for being grumpy with Mary for not helping her.

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    1. Lesley, Barb ended up having her gallbladder removed, and is slowly recovering.

      I agree that it's nice that we get to meet Martha a second time!

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  4. Andrew, there is so much here to respond to :) But first, I am so sorry to hear about Barb and before commenting I prayed for you both. May the doctors quickly diagnose the problem and get her home to recover.

    I love all you have written about Mary and Martha. I think we need both women so we come to understand that what is most important is not so much the doing as the becoming. May we spend time quietly learning from Christ so that our doing will then point others to Him. You always make me think, Andrew!

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    1. Joanne, thank you for this.

      Barb had her gallbladder removed last Friday, and is slowly recovering. Hurting, but happy to be home.

      I agree that we need both Mary and Martha, as a kind of chiaroscuro of faith.

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  5. Sorry to hear about Barb. Praying for both of you. Hope you can have a Happy Anniversary. Terri #6 FMF

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    1. Terri, Barb is home after having her gallbladder removed. She's still in a lot of pain, but getting better.

      We did have a lovely anniversary!

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  6. Praying for both, Barb and you, Andrew!

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    1. Thank you so much, Lisa. Barb is slowly slowly getting better.

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  7. I hope Barb gets feeling better soon. That's rough. I will pray. Take care, Norma

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    1. My dear Norma, it was indeed rough, but that high and dire tide is ebbing.

      We're so grateful for your prayers.

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  8. Praying for Barb and a Happy belated anniversary! FMF #15

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    1. Regina, thank you so much for your prayers, and for the anniversary wishes!

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  9. Praying for you and Barb. I love reading your poetry!

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    1. Allie, thank you so much for the prayers, and I am delighted that you enjoy the sonnets!

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  10. As if you needed one more thing at your house. I’m so sorry for Barb and for you. You wrote an amazing piece for leave. I’m pretty sure I’ve not read such an exciting rendition of Jesus, Martha and Mary! Thank you

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    1. Wow, I am so honoured!

      We didn't exactly need that One More Thing, but Barb is recovering slowly from gallbladder removal.

      Thanks for being here!

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  11. Happy Anniversary Andrew & Barb! Barb I hope you're on the mend and Andrew as always what a great message.
    Visiting today from Jeanne's

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    1. Paula, thank you so much for your good wishes.

      It was a wonderful anniversary, and Barb is slowly mending after her gallbladder surgery.

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  12. Andrew, you have given me much to think about in this post. Great poetry as usual. I'm sorry to hear that Barb is not well. Praying for healing and God's wisdom for the medics and yourselves. Kath

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