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Thursday, June 22, 2023

The Choice



Yes, I will admit it's true,
that life's become a killing frost,
but I'll count up what I still can do,
and not add up what I have lost.
So much lies beyond my reach,
and sometimes I feel like crying.
Bur I must practice what I preach,
and although I would be lying
to say I don't miss that which was,
this new life is mine to choose,
and I'll look ahead because
when in regret one sings the blues,
those bitter tears are shed in vain,
corroding blessings that remain.

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week is ASPIRE.

All to which I had aspired
in an old and gone existence
has been mothballed and retired,
but not the Path of Least Resistance,
for there's more that lies ahead,
there is much that I must learn
in the former knowing's stead,
and only this way will I earn
the right to face the older man
in the crooked looking-glass.
Maybe he once had a plan,
but the years fall as I pass
what he had once held as truth,
hostage now to newfound youth.

Weird, but three minutes thirty.

Music from Steve Winwood, with While You See A Chance.

Sylvia thinks that as long as you can eat ice cream, all is right with the world.



18 comments:

  1. Every day is a new day and a new life in Christ and our losses, whatever they are, are not as valuable as what God has in store. So hard to let go of the familiar, yes we cry but stay strong...it is always too soon to quit..."Warren Wiersbe" You have come so far and reached more than you know, even me, and because you do not quit, neither will I. Prayers always. Strange music to my ears...LOL. ,Oh, to,me, its laugh or lament. Which will you do? We need both.

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    1. Mary, thank you for this...and indeed, we do need both laughter and lamentation.

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  2. I absolutely agree with Sylvia. When there's ice cream, all is right with the world. Not necessarily with the scale, though ...

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    1. Linda, Syl's response is, "The more ice cream, the more of me to love!"

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  3. "when in regret one sings the blues,
    those bitter tears are shed in vain,
    corroding blessings that remain".

    I like this as much as my Dad's advice: don't regret the road not taken, you don't know where that road leads either.

    Wonderful pic of Sevice Dog Belle. She and you have done a dedicated job over the last year getting the pack comfortable with each other, freedoms assigned, and unexpected joy in the house.
    - Guess Who, yep it's me Barbara

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    1. Dear Heart 🦌❤️, thank you so much for this, and for sharing Dad's wisdom!

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  4. This morning I realize how God's aspirations for us are often unfolding day by day. Andrew, I think that is exactly what has and is occurring in your life. He had greater aspirations for you than you even realized! And it is amazing to me in watching it all unfold!

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    1. Joanne, I am sorry it's taken so long to answer, but after a terribly hard week your words DO ring so true, and I see God's hand and His hopes in all of this.

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  5. "When in regret one sings the blues, those bitter tears are shed in vain, corroding blessings that remain". This is so true, Andrew! Regret does nothing, but still our current joy, and the delights in our relationships of today. It is good to glance backwards sometimes, for repentance and growth purposes, but the glance always needs to be done through His loving eyes as that is what brings the redemption for today. He is so kind to gently lead us each and every day...and night...we're never alone! May the Lord continue to love on, give grace to, and carry you and Barbara forward.

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    1. I love the way you put this, Lisa, that our lookbacks need to be through His loving eyes.

      Thank you!

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  6. Thanks for inspiring words for this hemorrhagic stroke survivor. No matter what I can no longer do, I can always pray--for loved ones and others that I encounter in person or online.

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    1. Oh, my... surviving a stroke, and pressing on in faith...my hat is off to you.

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  7. No, no regrets, no I will have no regrets. A great philosophy to live by. Travel the roads less travelled and you will find that adventure begins at the end of your comfort zone. And Jesus is there adventuring along with you 24/7/365
    Your FMF neighbour at #9

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    1. Heather, I love that we're walking next to Him, through everything!

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  8. I want to say that as I wrote my piece I was curious about your take on aspire. And I can say I’m not disappointed!
    Bless you as you continue to aspire to know Jesus and more intimately still.

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  9. I love how you choose to focus on the blessings and the hope even when the losses and pain seem so big. A great take on the word aspire! Praying that those blessings keep coming and bring you comfort and joy.

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    1. Kym, I'm finding, more and more, that if I focus on blessings when I speak, and don't allow the presence of the negative even at that level, it permeates all of my life.

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