This step was expected, and now that it's here...I don't mind.
Sure, I can't talk, can't sing ("Thank God!" say the dogs and neighbours).
But it's not something to resent, because not being able to speak opens a door into the silent world of those who have so much still to say...if only someone would understand them by their hands.
Barb does. A gift and a discipline in my wife that I had never fully appreciated until now.
An it's fun. I do a lot of practising.
Barb, you see, has a lovely singing voice, and she is quite beautiful. So I decided to compliment her.
I signed..."You sing like Ozzy Osbourne."
She could not quite believe what she was 'hearing'. "What?"
So I repeated. "You sing like Ozzy!"
Definitely nonplussed (because of the honour, of course), she was speechless.
So I went on. "And you look like Mick Jagger."
Just a few more feet to dig this hole, and I'll come out in China.
Ol’
James, he said it so serene,
that
trials would give the answer,
but
did he, could he really mean
that
this would include cancer?
I’ve
fought this bastard for an age
and
now am near the end,
and
here, upon the final page,
is
enemy now my friend?
Can
it be that what’s been taken
is
the greatest gift of all,
and
far from being sad, forsaken,
my
illness is my call
to
put on my Big Boy Pants
and
join the Lord of the Dance?
Now, I'll bet that you were expecting, as a musical selection, Simon and Garfunkel's The SOund Of Silence. Nah. I'm more in the mood for Van Halen, so let's Jump!
Thanks to Carol Ashby, Blessed Are The Pure Of Heart is back on Kindle, and will be available in paperback soon.
Friends are everything. I couldn't have done it.
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YOU Andrew, have a very patient lady! Rejoice in her! :)
ReplyDeleteAnnette, I sure do!
DeleteThe beauty of ASL! I know a bit too from a college class I took. I use it on occasion. I hope you continue to find the humor and love that bears all things! You have a lovely wife so it sounds like! Your FMF friend and fellow writer, Jenn
ReplyDeleteJenn, thank you so much...and yes, there is beauty and grace in ASL. I am enjoying the learning curve. And, double yes, I do have a very lovely wife, in all repects.
DeleteAndrew, you and Barb are truly amazing. Your ability to find humor in all things is a "talent" for sure!
ReplyDeleteJoanne, thank you so much for this lovely, heartwarming affirmation!
DeleteI wish you'd publish all your poems!
ReplyDeleteThe poems will be published in the near future...there are about 2500 of them now!
DeleteJump! one of my faves. I believe you sang when I visited you and Barb - and sounded quite good. Someone, somewhere said SILENCE IS GOLDEN. xo
ReplyDeleteSusan, we have always loved 'Jump'...and yes, I did sing for you!
DeleteSilence can indeed be golden; it is teaching me another side of grace. I would not miss this for the world.
XOXOXOXO
LOVE it! JUMP is an epic all time favorite! Andrew, your perspective is a blessing.
ReplyDeleteKatina, I am so glad you enjoyed this...and I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog!
DeleteYou and Barb are amazing! Praying for you both!
ReplyDeleteLesley, thank you so much! You are a blessing.
DeleteI tried learning ASL once, no coordination. Although, I still have a voice. The perspective was not the same. For an enemy to become a friend! Oh yes! You have passed the test. You are counting it all joy, as James does say! It takes a while doesn't it, God delays our parting for such wonderful reasons! Extra prayers for your wife!! (and for you always)
ReplyDeleteMary, it does take awhile, yes, but once the paradigm shifts, you wonder why it was hard!
DeleteI feel myself the luckiest man in the world.
So many thanks or your prayers!
Blessings, Andrew. Hard without a voice. Good you're creative! More prayers. Take care.
ReplyDeleteMy dear Norma, thank you so much! It is hard...but not as hard as I thought it might be.
DeleteOh I can imagine Barb's face as you tell her she reminds you of Ozzy and Mick!
ReplyDeleteThe woman is a gem ... and you are, too.
Linda, yes...her face was quite the picture!
DeleteShe truly is a gem.
Thank you so much for being here, and for being my friend.
(((((Andrew)))))
ReplyDeleteAnnie in Texas
((((((Annie!))))))
DeleteI'm so glad you're here.
I so appreciate your words, perspective, and courageous outlook. Prayers to you and your special wife.
ReplyDeleteSuzette, thnk you for this lovely, heartwarming affirmation, and for your presence here!
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